Positive thinking

Does positive thinking help your self-confidence?

There's no doubt that not everyone accepts or believes in positive thinking. BEWARE though! Accepting that positive thinking actually works is the first step to increased self-confidence, only then can you start to consider how to achieve it and then how to use it effectively to build your confidence and motivation.

How do you describe yourself when someone asks you if you're a positive or negative thinker or they ask if you're an optimist or a pessimist? If you're not sure, it's important to work it out.

Try asking yourself if you see your glass as half full or half empty. Half full? that's good - you're thinking the right way; you're likely to think more positively. Half empty? well, I'd like to help by sending out a little wake up call - you need to start trying to change your mindset straight away.
And don't forget - it's absolutely true that optimistic people are more likely to stay healthy and live longer than pessimists! In fact, medical studies have proved it!

If you're still not sure whether you're a positive thinker or a negative thinker, try looking back over the last year - ask yourself what you remember. You'll probably have a mixture of good and bad memories. The key here is to establish which ones are taking precedence. Where does your focus tend to be? If you're thinking mainly of good experiences, well done; you're thinking positively. If you're thinking mainly of negatives, you need to start thinking about trying to shift your mindset.

Don't forget though that negative memories have value if you can learn from them. Once that's happened and you've squeezed out everything you can learn from them, you must forget them and move on. Confident people have the self-discipline to do this. They understand the dangers of constantly dwelling on negative experiences. They won't let these negative memories overpower the positives times. In essence, confident people are good at thinking positively all the time. That's why they describe themselves as optimists!

Positive thinking is a state of mind. It's a mental attitude that helps to steer your mind towards thoughts and actions that are conducive to self-belief, self- motivation and confidence. People who demonstrate a strong mental attitude and positive mindset anticipate and look forward to fulfilment and happiness. Their self-belief and positive attitude anticipates and expects success, not failure.

Have a think about people you know who you would describe as positive thinkers - I'll bet you would also describe them as motivated people who have self-belief and self-confidence. That's because the two go together. The majority of confident people think positively.

So, if you're in any doubt about the importance of positive thinking, change your mindset now. You'll find that not alone will you feel more confident if you think positively, you'll also look more positive to others and feel more motivated.
Mike McClement